Monday, January 31, 2011

Music For Mimi Information!




"Music For Mimi"
Where: 2955 Professional Place 80904
When: March 5th
Time: 5:00 PM-?

We will have dessert, a silent auction and of course MUSIC!



Here is a little teaser.  Rohman Holiday! Click the link to hear some of Leah Rohman's music!

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Rohman-Holiday/175488182466626?v=app_2405167945

What we could use your help with:
Pass the word around!  We would love to have more bands and musicians, but we need a commitment by February 12th so that we can have their names put in the information and on T-shirts we are having made.
Also, any product, service, art, object etc, that you or someone you know would be willing to auction off would be really great.

I hope to have some shirts up for order that say "Music For Mimi" in a few days.  These will not be the concert shirts, but shirts that support Mimi.

Again, I cannot begin to express our gratitude to all of you.  Your love and support have seen us through this.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Excellent Night....

I know that I already posted once today, but I wanted to fill you all in on Mimi's appointments.
The cast removal went great, no accidental cuts or ouchies.  She also had only a few skin issues, and was so happy to get them off.
We went and saw the doctor, and Mindy Siegal was amazed by her progress.  We couldn't believe our ears when she told us Mimi had made up for 6 years in 6 weeks.  All this time we were hearing that she wasn't making progress, and we find out she has made a ton!  Mindy also said that it was unacceptable that Mimi was feeling bad at school, and said she wanted to give her a two week break from the casts (one: for her mental health, and two: to see what her muscles look like in two weeks).  It will also give her skin a much needed break.  Tomorrow she will be herself again!
We know that it is because of the prayers and encouragement that you all sent our way.  I am crying with relief that she won't have to endure it for two weeks!
Mimi at Dr. Siegal's Office

Now for the other thing.....
Mindy would like her to see a Neuromuscular doc, and we will make that appointment tomorrow.  It will probably be a few months out, but we will get some answers.  Mindy said that she would not have considered CP until she saw Mimi's arms, but even if it is, it is not likely to be a major issue.  She understood our basic need for conclusion, and wanted us to get that.  It made sense to her that it could be a possibility given Mimi's premature birth, etc.  So at this point we are overjoyed with the news, and the change from such a horrible morning to such a great night.  I think I will sleep tonight, better than  I have in a long time tonight.
With all of the good news, we have a venue and a date! Music for Mimi is going to happen!  Mark your calendars for March 5th!  More news on that after Wednesday afternoon.
" I am delighted to tell you about the signs and wonders that the most high God has done for me. How great are his signs!  How mighty are his wonders!  His kingdom will last forever, and his authority continues from one generation to the next." Daniel 4:2-3

A Rough Start to the Day....

This is just a quick post to ask for prayers and thoughts for Mimi today.  If you had a chance to read the last post, you know that she had a bad day on Friday at school.  We thought we had worked a lot of that out, but when we got back to school, she had a breakdown.  Because of the temperature, they had in-door recess today.  Which means, she had recess in the gym.  As I wheeled her toward the gym she started crying and saying, "I am not going in there," "Mommie please don't make me go in there," and so on.  It was awful.  Her good friend Miss Tracey (who is a friend of mine and works at the school) stopped and talked with her.  We got her to quit sobbing, but she was still pretty upset.
I went and talked with the school councilor before I left to let her know what was going on, and that Mimi might benefit from talking with her.  It was really hard to get in my car and drive away when I knew that she was hurting and scared.  Fortunately she only has to be there two hours before I go get her to take her to her appointments, and many of the staff said they would pop into her classroom and check on her (thank you Monica, Tracey, Delinda and Leeni).
I think too, that she is worried about getting this set of casts off.  They accidentally cut her leg the last time and it frightened her.
Please pray that we get some answers today, and a clear plan of treatment and physical therapies.  I believe Mimi will feel much better if she knew exactly what was happening, and when it would all be over.  She feels really out of control and doesn't sleep well.  She has nightmares about her teeth falling out, and being moved into a tiny room, and other weird stuff that tells me she is mentally struggling.  I asked her to try to be brave (even though I don't think I am setting a good example here!Ugh.)
Thank you thank you.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Blue Casts.....

The Physical Therapists decided to recast Mimi's feet on Thursday, even though there was some redness, swelling and bruising.  However, she gets them off (tomorrow), Monday so that her orthopedist can see her legs.  


We are really anxious for this appointment, to check out what the future is going to hold for Mimi.
Please send your thoughts and prayers to us tomorrow as we go to that appointment.  


Also, pray for Mimi.  The realization of it all hit her really hard this week.  With Disney World over, and her schedule starting to maintain some normalcy, it caught up with her.  She had a really rough day on Friday.  They had an assembly at school, and because she had her wheelchair, she had to go in last to be closest to the exist (in case of emergency, wheelchairs have to be by an exist.  Who knew?), and she felt like everyone was staring at her.  After I picked her up she felt sick, was really stressed, was crying and put herself to bed.  She didn't get out of bed until yesterday evening, when Miles, Nelson and I sat her down and talked to her about how she was feeling.  I couldn't have been more proud of Miles.  He was so good to her, and helped explain things to her.  He has always been her closest friend, and I am so thankful that he had the discernment to know what to say.   We saw an immediate change after we talked.  She got dressed and was ready to face the world.  But school is getting difficult for her because she feels weird.  She feels like she doesn't fit.  She isn't handicapped in the permanent sense, but she doesn't feel normal either.  

She is also really excited about Buddy Basket Ball at church, and we are hoping that goes really well.  She missed yesterdays practice because of her breakdown, but I know she will be ready to go next Saturday.  

The MOST EXCITING NEWS!!! Is that we have found a venue for Music for Mimi!  I am chatting with my cousin Kristi this afternoon about date (I couldn't do this without her) and I will post the details tonight or tomorrow!  I feel like a huge weight has been lifted and we are going to get the show on the road!  So spread the word!  We are also thinking about doing a auction or raffle, so more news to follow.

I also want to thank you all for your continued support.  As of right now, we have received some amazing gifts, and we are on our way to paying off Mimi's day braces.  Soon we can start paying on the night braces.  Like I have shared before, I am completely overwhelmed.  I think it is safe to say I have cried everyday, all out of feeling loved and blessed.  So thanks to all of you for your love, gifts, and support of my family.  

Thursday, January 20, 2011

OUCH!

Yesterday Mimi had her red casts taken off.  There was a lot of swelling, bruising and redness on her feet and skin.  That was not a good sign.  Here is a picture of her feet when we took off the casts.  They look like alien feet!
It is hard to see in the picture, but around her ankles and joint it is really discolored.
We have another appointment this morning to look at her skin and what is going on there.  I will let you know how that goes.

  Thank you for all the information and resources!  I am getting in touch with the CP Association, who will help children even if they do not have a CP diagnosis.  We don't have a diagnosis for Mimi that explains why she is an idiopathic toewalker, but we meet with her orthopedist on Monday. We have never really considered a diagnosis, but have found that with one, we can get some help.  I am uncertain if they will even test for CP (cerebral palsy)  I know this is a short blog, but not a lot to report!  I will have more info after her appointment this morning.  Thanks again!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

A Great Time!

Disney World was fabulous.  We had such a fantastic time.  The major highlights of the second half of the trip were totally different depending on which child you asked.  For Mimi, it was meeting Rapunzel and Flynn Rider.  Now Mimi has yet to get into the Princess scene, but she loved the movie "Tangled" and was very excited to meet the main stars!  Here she is.......

She loved getting to talk with them, and Flynn even showed her his special bag, and what was in it.....












For Miles, he LOVED the Lego store in Downtown Disney.  He created several lego people, and got a few lego sets....

We were a little worried about Miles because of all the attention Mimi was getting, but at the "Lion King" show, he was asked to come and be a part of the show!  He had a great time, and you know he loves the stage!








Another exciting moment for Mimi was the kitty Marie.  Marie was walking around the park and stopped to grab Mimi's hand.  They walked around together for a while, and then she signed Mimi's casts.   Mimi was so excited!













On the last night we were there we did some last minute shopping.  While we were out Mimi was given a crown and a wand, by a Disney employee.  Surprisingly she actually wore them!

     We got in late last night, and the kids are off at school.  I will post tomorrow, after Mimi gets the third cast removed and let you know what they say.  She is in a lot of pain today and insisted on being in the wheelchair.  I am not as worried about her because she is literally surrounded by people who love her at school.

Friday, January 14, 2011

Disney World!!!

Okay.... I finally was able to get the internet connections from our hotel room to work!  Phew!

Alright, let's back track a bit.....
On Monday, Mimi had her third set of casts put on, but before they put them on they let her jump in the PT gym.  This is her acting crazy! For the color  she chose red of course, because it would match with Mickey and Minnie.  Unfortunately they really bent her legs, and one leg she can't hardly use at all.
   This is Miles and Mimi waiting for the airplane to Florida.  They were so excited!
When we landed in Florida, two things happened to get our trip off to an amazing start.  The first happened as we were being loaded off the airplane, and the man who brought Mimi's chair to her stopped and prayed over her.  The second happened as we were getting ready to get on the Disney shuttle, a man walked up and handed Mimi $20, and told her to buy something special, "Like ears."
    I was completely taken back by both of these events, but it gave me a sense of peace and hope that things were going to go perfectly for Miles and Mimi on this trip.
   Here are the "ears" Mimi bought the second we got there.
    For those who know me well, they know that I HATE crying more than just about anything (other than puppets of course!).  But since we have landed, I have teared up, or cried several times.  All of these times were out of joy and gratitude.  One more example is the parade we saw at Magic Kingdom yesterday.  We used the handicapped seating, which got us really close to the action.  Mimi was most excited about the parade, and the second the music started, EVERY single character stopped in the parade and hugged her- unless they were on a float, in which case they blew her a kiss, threw glitter at her, or waved.  She was in heaven, and I was a wreck (so was my mom).  It was the most incredible experience Mimi has ever had.  What made it even better was that each one noticed Miles too, and he got to shake hands with them all.  Here are a couple pictures of the parade.
You don't have to know Mimi very well to know that her favorite thing in the whole wide world is Barfy (or Pluto in the real world).

       Today we went to Animal Kingdom, and Mimi got a face paint to look like her favorite animal.....A zebra!
So far it has truly been the "Most Magical Place on Earth," and has made the kids so happy.

Physically, Mimi has done really well.  She hasn't walked much because of the extreme discomfort and loss of balance, but hasn't missed a beat.  Being here has brought to our attention the struggle we are going to have when she goes back to school.  As they continue to bend her legs, she will lose more and more mobility and instead of being able to walk more, it is obvious she will walk less (opposite of what we thought would happen).

I hope to post more soon, thanks again for staying with us!